Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Ralph Oakden with the following comment:
My great grandfather was Sir Ralph Oakden, his daughter Ella was my granny. It is his grandparents and various other family members listed on the gravestone. I visited the church and took photos of the grave earlier this year but it was so wet the photos are useless. I'd really appreciate having a better copy. I also have a wealth of material and 19c photos of the the Oakdens and would be happy to email these or any information to anyone interested.